Start_Here_300X300I built the Refuze community to support and encourage men to develop a new awareness and commitment to life.

 - Connect fuller and deeper
 - Expand your potential
 - Eliminate stress
 - Multiply your income

Within the R2LA Community, we address all the topics responsible to take your life far beyond any of your preconceived limitations.  A brief list of these topics is Self-Mastery, Social Cognizance, Relationship Mastery, Lifestyle Enhancement, and much more.

If you're sitting their saying, “What makes you the expert?”   My answer is, “I’m not.  But everyday I'm getting better...”   I'm just a guy, who 15 years ago, made a decision to no longer be a victim of my own experiences.  I was determined to study the efforts of those before me, while putting in my own work, toward overcoming and continuously challenging my personal limitations.  I recognized a code, hidden within the universe, which would guide my path from self destruction to self reliance.  Realizing the impact this had on my life, I've chosen to dedicate my time toward supporting men interested in living this same next level existence.

If you’re ready to grow in every way, then I invite you to Refuze  with me.




We know the real first step is to Refuze your current situation...  The first step on this site is to dive in & become an Honorary Member of the Refuze Community.  Signing up below will provide you FREE access to the tools and techniques you need to change your life forever.  Quick collections of videos, interviews, experiments and more.  Designed and presented for men who want to excel in every aspect of their being.  Physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual.  Covering topics such as self-mastery and enlightenment, health & fitness, relationships, business and more. 

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You've joined the ranks of the Refuz-eneurs.  Now, get active in your community.  Like your FB Refuze to Live Average Page and enjoy even more relevant stories and info from around the world.  We also have a private Refuze Inner Circle group for our upgraded members where collectively we will drive human evolution.  After upgrading your membership, You will receive a link to request admission.   We look forward to the value only you can bring with your stories and insight to share.  Let's be in this together!

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Go_Shopping_ImageYou live through your senses.  All of the products offered here are created to encourage the production of positive responses in your feelings and demeanor.  Intentionally engaging your senses dramatically increases your ability to create meaningful changes.  I invite you to stop by our store and set up your external world to reflect your internal .
You are supporting the movement.  Every time you purchase products from our store, a portion of the proceeds go to supporting our efforts in clean water projects around the world.  Additionally, you are funding this mission to make positive change in men around the world.  

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Refuze_Thank_YouIt's amazing and humbling to have watched my Refuze concept go from a sketch on a postit-note, to the internationally known brand it is today.  And I know, with you behind it, this is just the beginning.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you.  None of this is possible without all of you.  Your feedback is critical and appreciated, so make sure you continue to offer your suggestions and preferences.  Let's continue this positive momentum and continue to shock the world.  

We are just beginning to scratch the surface of what we are capable of.  We're in this together...
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"Tony's authentic desire and commitment to his own development and that of those he works with, is exceptional !"


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"This is not a revolution.  It's an inevitable evolution.  Faster, stronger, bigger.... better."  - Tony Kates

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